“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Sexual Focus

Get Into a Sexual Focus during Sex. What does this mean? Well…this requires putting the mind in a sexual and erotic mode so the mind is able to boost physical arousal. Using your mind, follow and visualize mentally what your partner is doing to you physically. It can include imagery of a sexy romantic scene or a fantasy that is a turn on. Perhaps, watching your partner or looking into each other’s eyes is a huge turn on. Though looking at each other or watching your partner may be helpful, it might not be a solution because many women need their eyes closed to focus in order to reach orgasm. Whatever it may be, find that sexual focus.