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“Women can Orgasm” Tip: No “Real Way”

April 14, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Get away from the idea of The “Real Way” train of thought!  Both men and women mistakenly believe that the “real way” to orgasm is strictly through vaginal intercourse.  Other methods of achieving orgasm, like through clitoral stimulation (manually or orally), do not count to these people because these orgasms are considered inferior to a “vaginal [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Breathe Differently!

April 12, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

A short, but helpful tip on achieving orgasm would be to breath differently.  When you vary breathing patterns it may add to sexual arousal and can trigger orgasm.  Simply changing your breathing can change the sensation you feel.  For some, taking big gasps and holding their breath for as long as they can is the [...]

Female Ejaculation – Is Squirting Fact or Fiction?

March 31, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Female ejaculation or “squirting” has been a source of controversy for quite some time now. People wonder, “Is female ejaculation possible?” or “Is it real?” Squirting seems to be the Lochness Monster of the sex world; however, unlike the Lochness Monster, squirting is real.  One common misconception is female ejaculate is actually urine. WRONG. Squirting [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Squeeze!

March 26, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Yes! Squeeze those Muscles. By contracting the muscles around the vagina, also called PC muscles, it helps bring blood to the genitals and builds arousal.  These are the same muscles that contract during orgasm.  By squeezing the PC muscles, like with Kegel exercises, it may help trigger orgasm and make orgasm more intense! So go [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Superiority!

March 19, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Want that orgasm?! Then be superior! For women who want to “work on” their orgasms, the female on top generally works best. When using this position, it allows a woman to take complete control of intercourse, allowing for maximum stimulation. She can control the tempo, depth of thrusting, use sliding movements and maximize clitoral [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Intensify the Tension

March 12, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

When physically aroused it is completely natural for your muscles to tense up as orgasm approaches. This happens in both men and women, but is more noticeable in women. Intensify this tension! Exaggerating this muscle tension may help to trigger an orgasm.

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Be on point!

March 5, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Here’s a quick but sure-fire tip: Be Sure Your Partner is on point! If your partner is off target when pleasuring your body, you will never reach orgasm. It is imperative that you specify where you need to be touched along with what you like best, if need be, give them a visual demonstration [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Play time!

March 1, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Make some time for play!  Couples often leave lovemaking for very late hours, when your body is just aching for sleep. If people would make time for “play time” and dedicate that time instead of waiting for spontaneous encounters, they would be pretty assured of good sex. This is especially important for women because it’s [...]

Rev your Sex Life! Role Playing is not just for nerds!

February 26, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Let’s face it…sometimes we need to bring a little creativity into the bedroom to get ourselves away from that mundane sex routine. Role-playing is a great way to rev-up your routine and enrich sexual relations between you and your partner. Find out from your partner if he/she has ever had any specific fantasies or desires, [...]

“Women can Orgasm” Tip: Sexual Focus

February 24, 2010 by sextoyloft  
Filed under Blog, Sexual Education

Get Into a Sexual Focus during Sex. What does this mean? Well…this requires putting the mind in a sexual and erotic mode so the mind is able to boost physical arousal. Using your mind, follow and visualize mentally what your partner is doing to you physically. It can include imagery of a [...]

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